Most of us use the words “choice” and “decision” interchangeably to describe the same actions but distinguishing between those two words clears a lot of confusion. Here is how I think about it: A decision is bigger than a choice. A decision is strategic, and a choice...
If you’re struggling with a relationship either at work or at home, take a look at your boundaries. Are they being respected or ignored? Good boundaries support good relationships. I’ve discovered there are basically three levels of boundaries. Level 1:...
It’s very difficult to “hang with” a conversation when it gets difficult. Just look on social media and you see name-calling, unfriending and all sorts of defense mechanisms when people feel trapped or threatened. The key to staying with difficult...
Last week we talked about Level 1 Resistance, which is your own resistance. This week the focus is on observing “their resistance,” which I call Level 2 Resistance, and what you can do as a leader. Level 2: Their Resistance It’s easy to notice someone...
As you probably know, I’m authoring my fourth book, From Conflict to Courage: How to stop avoiding and start leading. It’s going to be published in May 0f 2022. In the sixth chapter I’m talking about the three levels of resistance that you have to...
